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Why body shaming is a real big deal among teens? How to Brush off body shaming?

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TEENAGER PROBLEMS SERIES - 5 Just a simple question before starting today’s blog “have you ever felt like you’re not good enough?” well I don’t know how many of you might have felt that way but there was time I used to compare myself and thought that I’m not like other kids, and just because I was a fat kid nobody   is going to like me or be happy to be my friend, so somewhere from the starting itself I put myself down in every possible way! I’m fat, I’m not like other girls out there, I don’t look good, this and that blah blah blah, but whatever, it is usual in teens to get these sort of thoughts. Did you took a min and ever thought about how often we are told to change our appearance? Our society has distinctive image of how a girl or a boy should look like, or usually what we call as “ideal body” or “ideal beauty” , and there is no doubt magazines and television plays an important role of messing up with people’s brain where they show zero sized models and make us beli...

Staying Safe from Corona Virus\ Social Distancing\ Working from Home

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Today we are going to discuss about something really important and that is corona virus, social distancing and staying safe. I guess it’s really important to talk about this right now because this shit is growing so badly, every single day we get to know the increased number of people infected with corona virus, the death rates are increasing day by day, it has totally created a panicking situation everywhere. It all started from china and slowly started spreading every corner of the world. We already know the that every single day new cases of people infected with corona virus pops up and at this situation it’s really really important to be careful and hygienic. Cause as we say that precaution is better than cure! I really feel bad for those people who are infected now and those who lost their lives. Many people might be taking this thing quiet lightly, but just think, NBA, IPL,   Schools, offices and almost everything is being cancelled and closed because of this thin...

How Anxiety and Depression Affects Teens

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TEENAGER PROBLEMS SERIES - 4 When I think about anxiety and depression a lot of things pops up in my mind like the main reasons for anxiety and depression in teens, why is it one of the prominent problem in teens? How can teens overcome this problem.   It's been two years since my very first dealing with depression and anxiety. I remember the day when I first hit a low point in life and it's not a nice memory to have. I didn't know how to deal with such a strong mental health issue, so I hid my problems away from family and friends which made my issues worse. The scariest thing I found about suffering from a mental illness is the effect it has on every aspect of your life; it’s not just what’s inside your head. For me, suffering from depression became debilitating as I couldn't find happiness in the little things I used to enjoy doing. More often than not, depression would cause me to sit in my room and cry, usually for no reason at all.         ...

How to Make New Friends?\ Introverted Teens

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TEENAGER PROBLEMS SERIES - 3 Today “the mess” we are gonna dive in is “Struggle Making New Friends and Introverts" like making new friends was a real big deal for me, because I really didn’t know how to, I’m kinda introverted person and don’t talk much if you meet me in person, It’s that I just need  a lot of time to actually make myself feel comfortable around new company. It’s never been so easy to make new friends throughout my highschool journey, and I still face that difficulty. It’s not that every person is good with making themselves comfortable around new people, you know.  So I wanna tell you my story, I’ve this really good friend of mine, we used to travel in the same bus, I saw her in the bus for the first time when I was 5 th grade, well she was the only girl who was of my age, and I wanted to be her friend, cause I didn’t had any friend in my school bus. My introverted ass never let me approach that girl and eventually ask her to be my friend, like...

Self Love and Being Happy

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                             TEENAGER PROBLEMS    SERIES - 2     T oday I’m gonna dive in  to the topic which is kinda important  for all us especially  for teens and that is 'self love and being happy' well  talking about self love? It reminds me of the time when I was in my early teenhood,  I was insecure about my weight and appearance, I was being bullied because I was healthy,  well I am still.. but those incidents left a really dark impression in my brain. I was at a stage where I started to hate myself, and going through that phase was really tough for me, but I’m really lucky because I’ve such amazing people in my life, my mum and dad who made me realise that accepting yourself the way you are, and embracing the real you is an act of self love and self love is something which you should prioritise in your life for YOURSELF . And that’s what eve...

The Procrastinator's Brain

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                                                                      TEENA GER PROBLEMS T T       SERIES - 1                                                                                                             Teens are one of the great procrastinators and we all know that very well! we are really good at leaving all the work for the last minute, right from assignments to homeworks no matter how important that work is, we all get this thought in a corner of mind that "maybe we can do it tomorrow?"  Why I...